A Kiss from Rose | The Elders Are Tired
- alstonshropshire3
- Aug 19, 2024
- 2 min read
When Will Enough Be Enough? A Reflection on Asking Elders to Babysit, ‘ Cause The Elders Are Tired!
There comes a time when we must ask ourselves: is it fair to continually ask our elders, especially those over 70, to watch over our newborns? At that age, shouldn’t they be enjoying their lives, focusing on their well-being, and pursuing the things they’ve waited so long to do?
It’s easy to overlook their needs and desires when we’re caught up in our own busy lives. But have we truly considered what this constant responsibility is doing to them? Have we asked if they’re feeling weary or overwhelmed by the task? And beyond that, have we thought about what we’re doing in return to show our appreciation?
Imagine yourself at that age. Would you want to be tasked with the responsibility of caring for an infant day in and day out? Would you be able to manage it with the same energy and patience that you had when you were younger? It’s important to recognize that our elders have already raised their children—they’ve done their part. Now, it might be their time to rest, to enjoy life, and to seek out new experiences.
If we expect them to continue watching over the younger generations, we must also consider what we’re doing for them. Are we consistently showing our gratitude in meaningful ways? Or are we simply taking their help for granted, assuming they’ll always be there to pick up the slack?
It’s crucial to listen to them—really listen—and understand if they’ve expressed their weariness or desire to step back from these responsibilities. Their voices matter, and their well-being is just as important as the needs of the young ones they care for.
Perhaps it’s time to rethink our expectations and ensure that we’re not just taking, but also giving back in ways that truly honor and respect the elders in our lives.
The elders are tired!
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