A Kiss from Rose | When Life Is LifING

Respecting Others When Life is “Lifing”

Life has a way of throwing challenges at us when we least expect it. There are moments when everything feels overwhelming, when it seems like the world is crashing down on us. During these times, we long for understanding, support, and respect from those around us. But just as we desire respect when life is “lifing” with us, it’s equally important to extend that same respect to others when they’re going through their own tough times.

We all experience seasons of struggle—times when we are stressed, burdened, or simply trying to hold it all together. When you were in the thick of it, remember how much it meant when someone gave you grace, when they didn’t judge you for being less present, less cheerful, or less engaged. That understanding and respect helped you navigate through your storm.

Now, think about others who might be facing their own battles. They, too, are deserving of the same respect and understanding that you once needed. It’s easy to forget that everyone is dealing with something, that behind every smile, there might be a story of struggle. Just as you wanted others to be patient and kind to you during your tough times, it’s essential to show that same patience and kindness to others.

Respecting others in their difficult moments means being there for them, offering support without judgment, and giving them the space they need to cope in their own way. It means not taking their stress personally, not jumping to conclusions, and not holding it against them if they aren’t as available or responsive as they once were.

Life is unpredictable, and at some point, we all face hardships. By showing respect and compassion to others during their struggles, we create a culture of mutual support—one where everyone feels valued, understood, and respected, no matter what they’re going through.

So the next time you notice someone withdrawing, struggling, or just not being themselves, remember the respect you wanted when life was “lifing” with you. Extend that same respect to them. Offer a listening ear, a kind word, or simply give them the grace to navigate their challenges without pressure or judgment.

In showing respect to others during their hardest moments, we not only uplift them but also strengthen our own character and the bonds that connect us all.

Try being there for somebody else sometimes!

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“Real Talk” -Alson Shropshire