Let’s set the record straight. People make sacrifices for you. Real, genuine sacrifices that cost them time, energy, and resources—and guess what? They don’t have to. Yet some of you out here act like the world owes you more. Spoiler alert: It doesn’t. Life owes you nothing but death. Instead of nitpicking every little detail, complaining about what didn’t go your way, or giving backhanded critiques, maybe try showing some gratitude. Being genuinely appreciative doesn’t hurt; in fact, it might save a few friendships.
Think about this: That person who dropped everything to help you out probably had something else they had to do. They didn’t put their own plans on hold because they were bored or had nothing better to do. They did it because they care about you—and that’s a gift you’re taking for granted. How would you feel if the tables were turned, and your sacrifices were brushed off like they didn’t matter? “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” (Luke 6:31) Funny how some people forget that part when it comes to how they treat those who’ve bent over backward for them.
The truth is, people are tired—tired of being used, tired of being underappreciated, and tired of always giving with nothing in return. They’re tired of pouring from an empty cup, sleepless nights worrying about you, while you continue to take. It’s not a good feeling to realize you’ve been giving your all to someone who only knows how to receive. And when people pour their heart out to you, pour a little back—they too may need it.
So the next time someone does something for you, try two things: a genuine thank you and showing up for them when they need it. Because nobody has to put up with feeling used, and people can only be taken for granted for so long before they walk away. Life owes you nothing but death, so reflect on your actions. What is wrong with you?
Amen. 🙏🏼