A Kiss from Rose | The Setup

When reflecting on the kind of person who sets others up for failure, it’s crucial to consider this behavior across all areas of life—whether in family, friendships, work, or any organization. Am I someone who subtly undermines others, whether through misleading advice, withholding critical information, or creating situations where success becomes nearly impossible? This kind of behavior can stem from various insecurities, a need for control, or a desire to feel superior, but it ultimately leaves a trail of broken trust and damaged relationships. No one wants to purposefully wake up and fail, and no one wants to find out they are being purposefully and maliciously set up to fail. Instead of fostering an environment where people can thrive, this kind of behavior creates one where failure is almost inevitable. In every aspect of life, true leadership and support come from a place of honesty, transparency, and a genuine desire to see others succeed. If my actions are causing someone to stumble, it’s vital to reassess my motives and strive to be the kind of person who builds others up rather than tearing them down. Why would anyone intentionally want to do this to another human being?

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