Never be afraid to tell someone what you want and need. It is OK to place your order or request. How will anyone know what exactly it is that you need? The only person who has all of the answers is God. So don't feel left out, or complain about what you want isn't correct if you haven't first place your "order". Place your order so you can get what you want, need, and deserve.
1. Did you tell him/her what you wanted? How do you expect them to know?
2. Did you get the wrong order? Did you articulate what you wanted correctly? Did they comprehend what you were saying?
3. Are you upset about getting the wrong thing? Did you address it immediately or are you going to walk around frustrated?
The good thing about God is He always gets it right, whether we think so or not. Remember it is according to His purpose and will.