People tend to have answers and solutions to everyone's problems but their own. Hey, I know I am guilty of it at times. It is easy to give advice when you are not walking in the person's shoes. If you are not wearing the shoes, how can you provide the best assessment on how it fits? Until a person can feel the shoe's inside, they will never fully understand what you feel. Have you ever tried on someone's shoes, and they make the shoes look easy to walk in. When you put your feet in those same shoes, you almost break your neck, or it's pinching the heck out of your toes?
How about it's too big for you to fill, or the shoes are so wide, you feel nothing at all, but here they are complaining it is too tight?
God has given you custom shoes; wear the shoes you were given.
Don't criticize the shoes you or others have on. You are not criticizing them; you are criticizing God; after all, He created the shoes.
Look at everyone's shoes in a positive light.
Admire how others walk in their shoes. Heck, admire how you walk in your shoes.
Celebrate the walk! Praise God for the shoes!
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb.
And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.
"Everything about me is couture. I was born custom-made. God designed me, and you can't get a more couture designer than that." - Alston Shropshire