Can you afford the casket to close on your spouse? Can you afford for the casket to close on your parents, friends, or family members? The last conversation was it good, did you say I love you? No one wants to lose the special people in our lives, yet one day that time will come. Will you live with regrets? Live with love every day? Enjoy that person every day? Give to that person while they are here. Let the small stuff go. Don't live in shame for what you should have done. You and possibly some others know if you did right by someone.
One thing for sure and two is for certain, Once the casket is closed, THAT'S IT.